The Aftermath: Two and a Half Years Later

Posted by Sarahbear on January 18, 2012

It’s been two and a half years since the affair. I know I haven’t written about it quite a while. Honestly, it’s because it’s not something I continue to think about anymore. I guess it’s true what they say about time healing all wounds.

I’m really glad that things have worked out the way that they have. Chad and I took a series of really terrible events and wove them into something truly amazing. There are still times when I’m randomly hit with a memory about what happened. Usually while I’m driving and a song comes on that was popular during that period of time. If ever there was a time to be thankful that the music this generation of people like changes the way they change their underwear, it’s with something like this. The other time is usually when I walk into a room and a scent takes me back.

It’s really not too bad. It doesn’t take long for me to shift my thinking to something else and focus on how our marriage has been repaired and how strong it has become.

In 3 short weeks, Chad and I will cross the bridge into our 11th year of marriage. I’m just sort of in awe at how things have panned out for us.